See Her Again, and Again, and Again...

Women watch you very close on the first date. Read this to make sure you get a second.
Most people act their best on the first date, right? So, if you make a mistake now, she'll wonder how it will get as you go down the road. Read on to see some surprising and common mistakes men make.

You do this:

Let her decide what to do.

The right thing to do:

Take control. Offer some suggestions but let her have a little say as well. Taking the lead signals that you can take care of her. Women evaluate men on their ability to lead and take care of her.

You do this:

Be friendly to the waiter.

The right thing to do:

Don't overdo it, especially if your server is wearing a short skirt. Being nice is okey, but keep it at that. If your too nice to the waiter it'll show you're insecure and try hard for everybody to like you, not just the girl you're with. Don't. Be pleasant, but keep your smooth talk for the women you're with.

You do this:

Ask her about herself.

The right thing to do:

Truly listen, don't pretend you are. Before the end of the night you should know her best friend's name, her work, her career plans, her hobbies, and when she last saw her family. If the woman keeps on chatting, it's a good sign. Call her afterwards and mention something from what she said. That'll score you some extra points.

You do this:

Show you understand her

The right thing to do:

Don't act like a shrink. A girl will love it if she feels you have some kind of link to her subconcious, but when you say, "You're the kind of girl who...", all you're doing is pissing her off. It'll make her feel small, oversimplified, and she'll feel self-conscious. And it doesnt matter if you flattered her or not with what you said. Just pay attention to what she's saying, she'll feel you're tuned in.

Now, go and get yourself a date, hope this article helps you out. Good Luck!